Hello darlings, today I want to talk about how to be single and happy. After going through a very difficult breakup I finally realized that it was a blessing in disguise. Sometimes life gets hard but that’s just so we can grow and become stronger, better and wiser. Being single has taught me so much about myself. Before I had a lot of insecurities and rely on my partner for so much. Being single has taught me to love myself and become independent. Take this time to get to know yourself, spend time alone this is a very healthy thing to do. Start planning your life and focus on your goals. I learned that my single years are like my selfish years. Focus on yourself and become a better version of yourself. I also used this time to look back at old relationships and analyze my behavior and the behavior of my exes and learn from them. Also set standards for yourself, don’t settle for second best.  I have learned to have faith and I trust that the universe will bring me my ideal mate when the time is right. Enjoy your own company be alone and do things alone it will make you so independent. Don’t wait for someone to make you happy you have to be your own happiness and when you meet the “perfect” partner they will just add to your happiness. “How you love yourself you teach others to love you!”

“Single is not a status, it is a word that describes a person who is strong enough to live and enjoy life without depending on others”

Hola queridas, hoy quiero hablar de cómo ser soltera y feliz!  Yo pasé por un tiempo en mi vida en la cual no estaba feliz siendo soltera, pero algo en mi mente cambio. Con el tiempo me di cuenta que no vale la pena estar triste y buscar a una pareja en la cual tú cree que te va hacer feliz. Primeramente tú tienes que estar feliz contigo misma. Aprendí a usar este tiempo para enfocarme en mi. Mi felicidad y mi vida. También aprendí a usar este tiempo para conocerme. Esto suena obvio pero hay muchas gente que no se conocen realmente. Estar sola me a enseñado hacer más independiente y hacer cosas sola. Y me dado cuenta que yo misma soy mi felicidad. Una pareja no me va hacer feliz si yo no estoy feliz conmigo misma. Ser soltera me dado cuenta las cosas fea de mi personalidad. Las inseguridades que tenía con migo misma y poco a poco aprendí amarme yo misma. Como tú te amas le enseñas a los otros como amarte. 

“Lo más valiente que vas a hacer en tu vida será aprender a amarte a ti misma así tal cual como eres”

Xo Rosaira

2 Comments on “How to be single and happy 

  1. Absolutely love this. So much wisdom. One thing we totally forget when we’re in a relationship is our value. And that’s why it’s so hard walking away sometimes.


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